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My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:47

My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

And during this process, they either started seeing someone new who they planned to secure as their rebound option or were busy creating their post-breakup plan.

I.e. you thought that you had the perfect deal whereas they had already made up their mind and just weren't as emotionally invested in it as you were.

Simply put, because they have been prepared and you weren't.

What does it mean if I had a dream about my mom who passed 12 years ago waking up from her coma and asking for my dad? I have never had a dreams about her since she has been gone.

This is why comparing yourself to them in terms of the healing process isn't going to help you in any way, shape or form.

What they do doesn't matter and it's completely irrelevant to your healing process, though it’s valid to hate and judge them harshly for leaving the way they did.

This is why you can't expect them to feel anything close to what you're feeling right now, because you and them are on a completely different stage in the healing process.

Had strong anxiety, heart palpitations, headaches and fear randomly over twin flame presence, 20 mins later he didnt acknowledge me saw a photo of a girl on the back of his phone faced up. Assume it was a new gf. Was this a warning of seperation?

On their side, there has been a process of emotionally and mentally checking out while you were still together and while you were under the impression that everything is cool.

This happened long or shortly before they physically left.

You both are on polar opposites of the scale.

Thinking from a spiritual perspective, can we say that the journey in recovering from narcissistic abuse a battle of spiritual warfare? Any thoughts on this?

So, don't try to compete with them.

Instead, focus on taking care of, solving and healing what you are experiencing right now.